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What do you Really Want?

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It's 2019 folks, if you are reading this you are here, you are present, I've only got one question to ask. Have you decided on what you want in 2019? Ask yourself what exactly you want from 2019 and beyond. You owe it to yourself to answer what I call life's biggest question. Figure out what you want, set goals and put in the work everyday to achieve that which you truly want. No journey could be more satisfying than the journey of giving yourself what you truly want. This is where you find joy in process, this is where you sleep late and get up early with a smile on your face ready to do today's work, this is where nobody approves but you do it anyways. The shortest possible distance is the distance between two points. Point one is what you really want, that is your goal and point two is the achievement. When you can be that specific with your true goal in life. Life becomes much fuller and meaningful because you will find joy in process when working towar...

Are You Positioned Rightly?

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It's Exactly 40 days to Christmas and about 46 days to a New Year. Where you are right now is a result of all the decisions you have made till today. you have more than enough time to re-position yourself for success. photo credit:  www.hmeeketing.xyz Re-access, Rethink and Recreate...you shouldn't live life on the sidelines. If at this point you wake up in the morning and don't feel good abut yourself if you have to pretend to be happy or having a good time or keep putting up fake smiles Reassess, that's not the right place If you keep waiting for the day to end. waiting for "Phcn" to restore the light or for you favorite TV show to come on then you are not rightly engaged Re-access, that's not the right place If you keep ruminating on thoughts that are not in your circle of influence or running around in the same old vicious circle. or maybe its buyers remorse you are stuck with, probably recycling the same old gut feeling Re-a...

I smell Christmas

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Yes, I know it's been a while. Let me officially say a Happy New month to you all. For some reason, I think the year is coming to an end real fast and the festive season is almost here. This Xmas season will be so special, I can feel it already. I will try my best to blog more frequently especially during the festive period. So many things make Christmas special to me but I will be sharing a few with you. Christmas is usually celebrated on the 25th of December yearly.  These are a few of all the things that makes Christmas special: The harmattan Season: There is this feeling when it's the harmattan season... It makes me know christmas is here. The fact that everywhere is dry and cold during this period makes it so special. Fireworks: Although I am so frightened by fireworks, the sound and everything about it makes it scary, but I still love that sound in a way because it reminds me of Christmas eve. Decorations: You just know it's Christmas by the...

Try doing it differently!

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Sometimes in life its good to take the bulls by the horns. Have you ask yourself what is it you aren't doing right? You have tried over and over again and you keep having the same result. Have you tried a different method or approach? Sometimes we are stuck with the same result because we are too comfortable being on the same spot and too scared to try a different approach. Change is constant in life. Hence, a little change won't hurt. Don't you ever give up before you try. It's just like cooking a pot of jollof rice. Different people have different recipes for cooking jollof rice but eventually come up with same food which may differ in taste though. Some months ago I tried setting up my Adsense account and it was proving so difficult to get an approval. I got series of mail that showed my account was disapproved, I almost gave up but that didn't stop me. It made me do more research via Google and YouTube which helped me try a different approach until I...

Different kind of people in the world

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There are different kind ppppof people in the world. 1.The ones who are there no matter what (The loyal ones): They share in your joy, sorrow, they would laugh and cry with you. They have got your back no matter what. If you are going on a journey they would call to inform you there is a pot hole in front. When you are hurt they are hurt. They check up on you always. They are always a major factor to your growth. They are more like family. 2. The monitoring humans: These ones are just in the background. They are interested in your life's achievements, your position at work, your family's present state, what kind of car you drive. They keep close tabs on you on social media. Frequently going through pages and analyzing all the information they gather. 3. The pretenders: They act like they care, they act like friends but aren't. They are waiting for you to fail. You start up something they pretend they are in support but are always happy when something goes wrong. ...

Let it Go!

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Let it Go! It sounds like the theme song in a Disney cartoon, yes you got it. It actually is. Frozen! What have you refused to let go in your life that has stolen your peace and is causing you sleepless night. Unforgiveness! fear! ...whatever it might be, let it go. No man has the right to snatch your peace away. You think you are doing yourself a favour by not forgiving that person, but that person you have vowed not to forgive has moved on with life and you are still behind, dwelling on the past. You are only hurting yourself, Let it go. Can it be your fears? Be bold and drop that heavy luggage of fear, let it go. How long are you willing to hold on to that past. Isn't it time to just let go and move on. Do not let your present slip away. Own it. Forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you. Don't be a prisoner to things you can't change, If you can't do anything about it just let it go. Drop it, leave it, let it go. I would love to r...

8 Simple Dinner Table Etiquette for you.

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Table manners play an important part in making a good impression.  Here are some dinner etiquette rules you need to know. Chew with your mouth closed Do not talk with your mouth full Do not drink unless you have swallowed Your elbows should be off the  table Do not stretch your hand over another person's food Do not lower your head to the food, bring the food to your mouth. Do not keep your bag, phone, car keys and other item on the table. Remember to say thank you to the host. Do have a lovely weekend! Lindađź’•