Stop Assuming and Start Living

Sometimes you feel the grass is all green looking at it from afar. Wait until you get close to the grass before you start making assumptions.

Simply because she is fat doesn't mean she eats three square meal per day.

She might be driving a car today, that doesn't mean she is made. She might still be finding her feet and servicing a loan.

The fact that she is always smiling doesn't mean she has never had a hard time.

If she is always gorgeously dressed that doesn't mean she goes shopping all day. She may just have a good dress sense and uses what she has neatly.

The fact that she loves carrying weaves doesn't mean she can't afford a weavon.

Let's stop living in assumptions.
The next time you ask him or her for something and he or she can't grant it don't think he/she doesn't want to.
She might be having a hard time just as you.
We are all trying to survive this world.

Stop assuming and start living.

I would love to hear from you.

My humble self,
Linda

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