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Fearfully and wonderfully made

I read up on social media that a boy committed suicide because he was always been compared to his mates that were financially doing well. I felt really bad after reading it.

As a parent,  spouse or friend, whatever the relationship might be. No two human beings are same. We aren't just made, but we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. God made us for a unique purpose.


What appeals to you might not appeal to me. Making someone look like or becoming someone else isn't right. Every star should be given an opportunity to shine.

Every one's journey is different and everything you need to succeed in your journey is in You.

As a parent what kind of words do you use when speaking with your children. Is it one to help build their self esteem and make them fearless or, one that makes them feel they are nothing and can't amount to anything?



You can only guide your child/children in their career path but imposing a career on them is like leading  a horse to the river without making it drink.

Learn to interact with your children. Help them build confidence. Tell them everything is attainable if they put their mind to it.

Commend them when they carry out a task successfully. Encourage them when they fail and tell them they can do better if they put more effort.

As a spouse do you constantly use abusive words when conversing with your better half or keep comparing them to someone else. Do you commend your spouse for his/her efforts?

Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to people.

A bad wound heals but a bad word doesn't. Never you force someone to be like someone else.

Everyone is beautiful and unique just the way they are.

I would love to hear from you.
My humble self,
Linda💕


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