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I can't do this anymore.

This was the exact same words I had when she walked up to me and poured out her heart to me. Mrs. Nwosu has been one of my closest friends in church and since her husband was also a friend to my husband. It made the bond of friendship even stronger.


Anyone who saw her would have thought she is having the best times in her relationship. Although they were still trying for a child that never weighed down her bubbling self. She was always happy and also made everyone around her happy too.

After Church service on Sunday, she came straight to where I sat and told me she wasn't comfortable with it anymore. My curious self asked her what it was and she told me it wasn't something we would discuss in the open. I quickly grabbed my clutch and dashed off with her.

We arrived at the mall and went straight to an eatery. To my greatest surprise, she burst out in tears and hugged me closely saying Sis I can't do this anymore. I am losing my mind. I tried pacifying her and she told me her husband isn't who she thought he was. In her words 'he is Gay'! I screamed out in shock. This is a man that is always on the pulpit preaching and condemning sinners.

I felt really sad and could not believe my ears, If I wasn't hearing it from her I would have doubted, she even showed me a recording of the very act.

This is a couple that has been married for 10 years and everyone felt they were a very understanding and happy couple.

She also told me she had known for a while now but he promised he would change and she shouldn't tell anyone. But what broke the camel's back was when she found both her husband and his praying partner in their room on their matrimonial bed.

I couldn't hold back my tears as I cried uncontrollably. I summoned up courage and advised we go to the head Pastor. He was shocked when he found out that the head Pastor was aware and he decided to flee away.

He has since left the home leaving his wife alone. I heard he now stays around Lekki in Lagos. Although Mrs. Nwosu has since moved on with her life and is happily married with kids that were an unforgettable experience.

Just an Imaginary Story.

My humble self.
Linda❤

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