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Stop the Comparison.

Do you know that the reason a lot of people are faced with stunted growth is because of Comparison? Why don't you invest more time in your self and stop the comparison?



Even the Bible made us understand that Time and Chance happen to them all, Ecclesiastes 9:11. This means there are time and chance for all.




The more you compare, the more you get depressed, bitter and jealous. It does you no good. Instead of comparing your self with others, why don't you do yourself this favour by comparing your past and present? Have there been any growth? If your answer is yes be grateful for your achievement. But if you are yet to record any progress, this means you still have work to do.


So many youths rather invest their time on social media, making comparisons. If only I was in his shoes. If only I had half the money he has. If only I was fair skinned. If only I was a celebrity. If and If and If...

The earlier you discover you and love you, the better it will be. Making comparison only kills the original you, your self-esteem and reduces you to nothing.


People trying to change their skin tone is mainly because of their low self-esteem. Just be the best version of yourself. The only person you need to impress is God and yourself.



Can I tell you this, someone out there will love you for you and appreciate the real you. You were made in God's Image and likeness. Just picture how beautiful God is, he made you with so much love.

You are the best You, don't be intimidated by anyone. You are amazing just the way you are.

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