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More than love, you also need friendship

If you are thinking you need just love in that relationship. Then you have to think again. What sustains a good relationship is friendship. When love can be termed as a sacrifice, friendship can be termed as a trust.

Marry your friend


Love is possible after friendship but friendship is not as possible after love. Just the same way you need that strategic relationship in your life. Your colleagues at work, your business partners and your friends. Your spouse is also an important part of your life and decision you make concerning him or her will either make or mar you.



Many people tend to get it wrong when you say marry your friend. That doesn't mean you should accept any of your friend's proposal asking for your hands in marriage. What this simply means is that it is important you be friends before you become lovers.

Take time to study that person, be careful so you don't jump in and out of love.



New research suggests that a strong friendship is a secret to a long-lasting romantic relationship. Also valuing your friendship with your partner helps create a relationship with more commitment, more love, and greater sexual satisfaction.



Develop and consistently nurture a best friend relationship with your mate.

You sure need friendship, more than love.

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